Why I like my space? and why I don’t?

I like bread. I toast it once. Yummy
I like bread. I toast it once. I toast it twice. Yummy yummy
I like bread. I toast it once. I toast it twice. I toast it thrice.
I burnt the bread 😦

I spend too much time around people and I feel burnt or I burn them. This is why a little healthy space between two people and between any two different parts of your life is important. Toast the bread twice, enjoy the perfect toast and then get on with your day. Come back for another bread later. And it’ll taste great.

However it is still possible that the bread starts tasting a little too same-ish to you and maybe loses its charm. This is the law of marginal utility in motion, isn’t it? You have bread everyday, don’t you? We all have bread everyday. Everyone has bread at every home so what’s so yummy about bread?

Leave the bread alone for a while. When you come back to it, it will taste just as good as it did the first time. Neither you nor your taste buds, nor even the bread, changed. It was just human nature to take a little space from everything to learn its value in your life, again.

Space matters because it gives the mind room to breathe. It creates clarity, reduces noise, and helps you see what actually matters. Without space, everything becomes cluttered; with space, everything becomes easier to understand and appreciate.
So let the bread go. It’ll come back if it’s still your taste and if you’re still the bread’s.

But if this is the case then why do I not like space?
Because leave the bread alone for a long long time, in any random space-time continnum, the bread grows mold or overthinks about losing the person that called it yummy and either way- you can never eat your toast again.

Too much space can feel empty. It creates distance, weakens connection, and can turn clarity into isolation. Without some structure or closeness, things stop feeling grounded or meaningful. Space is healthy only when it supports connection, not when it replaces it. When there is too much of it, even the strongest bonds can lose their warmth and shape.

So gently tell the bread, “Hey breadidoo, I’m gonna take a little space, gather some stories from my life and come back to tell you about them. You also do the same? Visit a baker, visit the fridge, make some new friends in the spreads and dips and we’ll come back and enjoy toast again.”

So the TLDR is simple: too much of anything is bad. Not taking enough space is unhealthy, and taking too much space is just as bad.
Enjoy your toast and your space- just not too much of either.